HOW TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A STAR!
Have you ever seen a star? Especially at night?
They are so beautiful.
So glittery - shiny.
Do you know what a star really is?
Have you ever imagined what it looks like up close?
A star really is the burning of different gasses that causes immense heat that can melt you to ashes. An example of a star is our very own SUN. I'm sure you can imagine this now.
What makes a star is not nice? It is ugly, nasty, elements, undergoing a constant nuclear reaction similar to the effect of a hydrogen bomb.
Now, who wants to be a star?
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When you look at people called stars, like famous artists sports & movies celebrities, politicians, etc. we often place them on a pedestal that is absolutely unreasonable.
They don't mind at all. Infact they go out of their way to encourage such.
That is what they call Branding.
These people go through a lot of work to maintain that stardom. To be a star that have to "burn" constantly.
Undergoing CONSTANT NUCLEAR REACTION.
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This write-up is really not about being a star but about the false perception we sometimes have of people which wrongly affects our psyche, disposition and mental health.
This is especially true in marriage.
I have said this time without number. Every marriage is unique of itself. It really is foolish to compare your home and relationship with another's.
Cultivate your unique relationship with your spouse. Do not take advise from friends. They may know about their own relationships, but they know NOTHING about the fine blueprint of yours.
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I was inspired this rmorning to tell you this: WORK YOUR OWN FIELD! Farm your marital relationship in your own unique way. Show love to your spouse in that familiar way that works for you. Stop trying to be like the Jones's.
Do not cause undue depression and frustration to your self and family over issues that have no bearing to your marriage.
I'm tired of opening my timeline to see shocking news of suicide attempts and death over ridiculous issues that are temporal.
Your marriage is forever. Make it glitter by working it constantly and others will admire your marriage also.
Listen, the best marriages are not announced on social media. TRUST ME ON THIS! They are simply enjoyed privately. The noise you see on your social media timeline are people trying to compensate for their perceived lack. Trying to BRAND their marriage with propaganda. That is an APC solution.
Ignore them and cultivate your marriage with your unique style and soon they will admire the glitter of your home even at night.
- E. I. OPUTA
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When you look at people called stars, like famous artists sports & movies celebrities, politicians, etc. we often place them on a pedestal that is absolutely unreasonable.
They don't mind at all. Infact they go out of their way to encourage such.
That is what they call Branding.
These people go through a lot of work to maintain that stardom. To be a star that have to "burn" constantly.
Undergoing CONSTANT NUCLEAR REACTION.
.
.
.
This write-up is really not about being a star but about the false perception we sometimes have of people which wrongly affects our psyche, disposition and mental health.
This is especially true in marriage.
I have said this time without number. Every marriage is unique of itself. It really is foolish to compare your home and relationship with another's.
Cultivate your unique relationship with your spouse. Do not take advise from friends. They may know about their own relationships, but they know NOTHING about the fine blueprint of yours.
.
.
.
.
I was inspired this rmorning to tell you this: WORK YOUR OWN FIELD! Farm your marital relationship in your own unique way. Show love to your spouse in that familiar way that works for you. Stop trying to be like the Jones's.
Do not cause undue depression and frustration to your self and family over issues that have no bearing to your marriage.
I'm tired of opening my timeline to see shocking news of suicide attempts and death over ridiculous issues that are temporal.
Your marriage is forever. Make it glitter by working it constantly and others will admire your marriage also.
Listen, the best marriages are not announced on social media. TRUST ME ON THIS! They are simply enjoyed privately. The noise you see on your social media timeline are people trying to compensate for their perceived lack. Trying to BRAND their marriage with propaganda. That is an APC solution.
Ignore them and cultivate your marriage with your unique style and soon they will admire the glitter of your home even at night.
- E. I. OPUTA
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