EXPOSITIONS BY E. I. OPUTA

If your life is a revolving pattern. If you are no longer contented with the state of things. I mean to say, if you feel disturbed because you are tired of thesame humiliation happening again and there seems to be no end to the stretching of your endurance. Then here is ONE simple thing you can do to change things. Please by-pass if you don't understand the prelude. This is only for those who have seemingly come to the end of the road. . . . . . . . . . . Keep going . . . . . . . . . . . Your answer is only a scroll away . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Come on don't get tired, this solution is so real it'll catapult you from the realm of indebtedness and stagnation. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . CONGRATULATIONS! You are almost there! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . OKAY No need to prolong the wait. if you've still there, it means you really need to see this. THE ANSWER: TAKE IT....DIVE IN.....GET IN TROUBLE ...... Now, you

            I think it is the British that has this adage about "... putting your best foot forward". When you meet someone outside your home environment, it's likely you are meeting the person in his/her best attire, behaviour. comportment and look. It is very foolish to accept anybody based purely on the assessment of the "best foot". You know that first impression matters.  DO NOT CHOSE YOUR SPOUSE WITH THE PICTURE OF FIRST IMPRESSION ON YOUR MIND. Listen, when making your choice, you really do not want to focus on his/her good points, NO, discover his/her not so flattering points. I hear of couples having "miracle marriages". It makes me laugh! Seriously, you met a man on an airplane traveling to Lagos and he took your number after a short talk and the next week you are married to his brother. (This actually happened, saw it on TV as a testimony). Listen dears, the period of courtship is not only for you to discover