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Marriage is like Sky Diving ...

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First of all, let me show you some precautions for skydiving: 1. Safety is EVERYONE'S responsibility. 2. Don't ever get complacent. 3. Review your emergency procedures before the jump. 4. Get a gear check before the jump. 5. Always approach the plane from the rear. 6. 200 jumps are required before undertaking the jump. 7. Perform handle checks before preparing to exit the plane. 8. Be very aware of everyone around you at break-off. 9. Be mentally prepared for malfunctions and always be ready to perform your emergency procedures. 10. Know which way is North, South, East, and West on the jump. Now, simulate that to marriage and you have an amazing recipe for a sensible marriage experience. I say sensible because that should be the baseline for any marriage. And also some marriages I see these days are so insensible. Please take note of the following if you are about to undertake a skydive (marriage): 1. This action is dangerous. It gives a high. Yes. It's very satisfying. Yes...

TRULY WEALTHY MEN MAY NOT HAVE MONEY!

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Good morning,  If the worth of your relationships is money-based, you will easily be susceptible to fraud. Everyone in your life is not there for you to benefit from financially.  Growing up, I was privileged to meet and interact will great minds who bestowed their wisdom by communication. They never gave money to me but their experiences proved more valuable.  Presently, I maintain healthy value-based relationships with great minds who may not own Porsche cars or humongous mansions in different parts of the world, but they are so wealthy in their own right.  The richest man in the world is only that because he hordes his money. There are a lot of people who do not horde their money but invest in the lives of thousands of people daily. I have been privileged to meet them.  They do not care about what young people of this generation care about. Their focus has always been on equipping the next generation to be better than their ...

WATCH YOUR WORDS, KEEP YOUR PROMISES.

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"Your promises lose value if they often end up in excuses."    "If you want people to listen when you speak, learn the art of only saying what you mean."  A man is as good as his words. If your word is your bond, it means that what you say or commit to is as valid as your signature on an agreement document.  The worth of a man is often demonstrated by his relationship with the people around him. Family, colleagues, business associates, friends and neighbours. The value these people place on you is determined by the nature/strength of your character. The strength of your character is formed by the consistence of the principles you keep.  integrity   1. the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles. "a gentleman of complete integrity" synonyms: honesty , uprightness, probity, rectitude, honour, honourableness, upstandingness, good character, principle(s), ethics,...

DIVE

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If your life is a revolving pattern. If you are no longer contented with the state of things. I mean to say, if you feel disturbed because you are tired of thesame humiliation happening again and there seems to be no end to the stretching of your endurance. Then here is ONE simple thing you can do to change things. Please by-pass if you don't understand the prelude. This is only for those who have seemingly come to the end of the road. . . . . . . . . . . Keep going . . . . . . . . . . . Your answer is only a scroll away . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Come on don't get tired, this solution is so real it'll catapult you from the realm of indebtedness and stagnation. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . CONGRATULATIONS! You are almost there! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . OKAY No need to prolong the wait. if you've still there, it means you really need to see this. THE ANSWER: TAKE IT....DIVE IN.....GET IN TROUBLE ...... Now, you...

STOP FOCUSING ON THE SCAFFOLDING!!!

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"SCAFFOLDING -ˈskafəʊldɪŋ,ˈskaf(ə)ldɪŋ A temporary structure on the outside of a building, made of wooden planks and metal poles, used by workmen while building, repairing, or cleaning the building." Relationships have too many issues to contend with for people to add misconception to it. How can you have a beautiful building being erected and what you are focused on doing is beautifying the scaffolding. There are a lot of scaffolding materials in human character and experiences. You'll be surprised at some of them. These are things that seem important but really have absolutely no value in growing a relationship. Some of these include: Chemistry: The way you feel when you are close to him/her. The way they make you feel. You can hardly breathe. Her perfume draws from you a whole reservoir of longing. Your heart beats so fast just because you heard his voice. e.t.c. CHEMISTRY DEALS WITH CHEMICAL REACTIONS. If you know the correct formula you CAN REPEAT TH...