LOVE TEST

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People generally want shortcuts. Shortcut to make money (PONZI SCHEME). Shortcut to get the job/contract (BRIBERY). Shortcut to pass their exams (SORTING)...
Now they want shortcut to find their missing rib or achieve a happy home. Do I need to tell you that shortcuts are bad?
Yet, here is what I'll do for you. I'll give you a shortcut.
YEP!!! A SHORTCUT TO KNOW IF HIS / HER LOVE IS REAL.
A LOVE TEST!!!!
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READY? RIGHT, LET'S GO...

  1. He/She doesn't find any fault with you. Doesn't ever take offence. Even when you know you have messed up. (Love bears all things).
  2. He/She has unwavering faith in you. Believes whatever you tell him/her. No matter how many times your lies have been exposed, he/she always hopes for the best from you. (Love believes all things, hopes all things).
  3. He /She is not rude, harsh or arrogant. Doesn't lord over you. A man that loves you doesn't try to rule or dominate you, he leads and serves. Breakfast in bed is an act of service not rulership. Only someone that loves you will do it. Even if the person is rude to others he/she will become mellow when it comes to you. (Love is not arrogant).
  4. He/She actually listens to your opinion. Doesn't insist that it must be "his/her way or the high way". (Love does not insist on its way).
  5. He/She never stops doing the above and more. If the person was pretending and started keeping to the above tests, well the final test is that he/she must continue. If he/she stops then it wasn't love. (Love never ends).

... There are so much more. But remember I told you that shortcuts are bad? These tests are for those who insist on shortcuts. You can only know a person by being discerning (watch, listen, read). 
TELL TALE SIGNS OF PEOPLE'S HIDDEN INTENTIONS ARE ALWAYS VISIBLE FROM THE ONSET.
As a Funny Man once said, 
while falling in love with your heart, TAKE YOUR HEAD with you.


- E. I. OPUTA

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