THE UNIFYING FORCE OF MARRIAGE

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Marriage is a unifying force. This means two people (male and female) have wrapped themselves around themselves so much that they each live in the other. It's just like the physical manifestation in conception. You roll on the hay so well with your spouse that you exchange parts of yourselves. He enters you and you enter him and together you guys produce the physical manifestation of that union - a child.

A child is not the only manifestation of your union. You see, people are made of their experiences! When you share experiences together you absorb a little of each other. The more you give of yourself, the more entwined you get to the point that there is little difference between both of you - you become one.

So, 
  • When you spend money on your side chick, know that its also your wife's money you are spending!
  • When you sleep with that married man, be aware that you are sleeping with two people in one. His wife in bed with you two.
  • When you slap that mechanic, know that you are slapping his sick wife also. 
  • When you murder someone for whatever reason, you are not just killing that person, you are killing his wife also!
  • When you gave that driver a job, you actually just employed two people.

Marriage unites the participants in the union. You can't separate them for any issue. So, next time you are dealing with an individual who happens to be married, consider that you are dealing with two people in one.

- E. I. OPUTA

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