EXPOSITIONS BY E. I. OPUTA

A perfect home strives on a voracious sense of commitment by all to making it a success. There is a local saying: “Old soldier never die”. Funny one! Marriage needs to be like that. Your children need to come into the family and feel like the love is like an old soldier that will never die. Your bond must be so strong that the thought of separation (not even divorce) is humorous. I‘ve met homes like that. Perfect homes. The mere thought of separation or even disharmony is funny, even to you. They are so bound together that they start resembling each other, as if they are siblings. The term “ONE BLOOD” is very real there and that is due to the strength of bond that holds the home together. This bond is forged in the fires of commitment. One that never ends. It never fades. It’ll out last eternity and still prove resilient. That is the kind of commitment that can forge a perfect home. AIDS TO ACHIEVING UNENDING COMMITMENT Never say never. Allow yourself to be lost in your mutual lo...

As a wife you must be content to be your husbands Queen. The moment the wife becomes unhappy with her designation as Queen, it means that the marriage cannot be. To have a peaceful and successful home both must realize their roles in it (career wise) and be accepting of it. To ladies, before you get married, you must make sure that your man has a vision that is bigger and in line with yours. This is so that you can find a supporting role to its attainment. There is nothing wrong with a female career. There is nothing wrong in having a married woman being the president of the nation. It will one be expedient if her doing so is in furtherance of her husbands vision.  How many women will love marrying a man with no vision? No one! This goes to show one of the important factors to consider before marriage. If you (as a lady) dream to one day be the Governor of The Central Bank, your dream man (spouse) has to envision being the President of the country or of the World Bank....