UNDYING COMMITMENT:

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A perfect home strives on a voracious sense of commitment by all to making it a success. There is a local saying: “Old soldier never die”. Funny one!

Marriage needs to be like that. Your children need to come into the family and feel like the love is like an old soldier that will never die. Your bond must be so strong that the thought of separation (not even divorce) is humorous.

I‘ve met homes like that. Perfect homes. The mere thought of separation or even disharmony is funny, even to you. They are so bound together that they start resembling each other, as if they are siblings.

The term “ONE BLOOD” is very real there and that is due to the strength of bond that holds the home together. This bond is forged in the fires of commitment. One that never ends. It never fades. It’ll out last eternity and still prove resilient. That is the kind of commitment that can forge a perfect home.

AIDS TO ACHIEVING UNENDING COMMITMENT
  • Never say never.
  • Allow yourself to be lost in your mutual love.
  • Don’t allow anyone or yourself place a limit to what you can or will do for your home.
  • Place your home at the topmost priority above career, money and power.
(Excerpt from the book "Exposed" Chapter 16: The Perfect Home, Page 118-120)

- E. I. OPUTA

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