EXPOSITIONS BY E. I. OPUTA

"Anything you desire and believe you have received you will have it" and that's a fact I have come to know experientially. But I missed several targets and opportunities all because of the lack of deep understanding and when things did not work, I was always quick to say things like "All things work together for my good". And instead focusing on that good and plan on how to win in the end, I start planning for something else and in the end I lose everything and the good never comes. My mindset and life took a new turn when my friend gave me a gift of an amazing book, written by Jack Canfield. In this book he gave twenty-five success principles that are life changing and in principle six, page seventy, I saw these words "Become an inverse paranoid". At first I was like, which kind title be this, but after reading it my mind was rewired. Here are a few things that struck me. I saw a quote by Stan Dale "I've always been the o...

Dear Feminists, You come to the cities to preach equality, the same cities that have female doctors, pilots,Naval Officers, Army Officers, engineers, teachers, lawyers, managing directors, business magnates,writers, entrepreneurs, etc. You come on social media to preach equality, a place that has a teeming population of girl graduates and successfully independent working class ladies. Yet you ignore the north, the remote villages scattered across the continent. Places where girls are still seized into marriages as payments for debts, places where a 60 year old man marries a 12 year old girl as his 18th wife, places where teenage girls are denied basic education and right to social freedom. Places where girls do not even know what social media and phone means. You conveniently ignore those places and come to big cities like Abuja, Port Harcourt, Lagos and Calabar to preach equality? You have happily given the fish in the water some water to drink and totally walked past...

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Hello friends,  PREAMBLE: As promised, I present to you a short piece of answers for relationships within and outside marriage. This didn’t quite turn out as I imagined as the “Message” turned out to be too large a subject matter. So, I decided to take them in pointers as highlighted earlier and to forego scriptural references (forgive me). I do hope these highlights answer some of the questions that have bothered you in the past. Please feel free to forward any follow up question or issue that you may have. I will do my best to answer as the Lord leads. It may ofcourse take a while for some (as I am often beset with so much activity) but I definitely will answer you. God bless you.  ANSWERS FOR SINGLES: 1. Is romance wrong in a love relationship for single Christians?  Let me start off by saying simply and explicitly that fornication is a sin. Fornication is having sexual intercourse with someone you are not bound to in marriage. I did say in ma...

Good Morning dears,  Happy Easter in Advance! Every woman who has ever thought of her family (either presently or in the future) prays for a perfect home. Perfect, not as scored by any external standard, but perfect for her. A husband that adores her, children that are exemplary and a station that is comfortable. A perfect home is no myth or illusion. It’s very achievable. It depends on a variety of factors and a blessing from above. But it remains a present day reality for a number of people and can be yours too. MUTUAL ACCEPTANCE:  This means commitment of both parties to achieving this goal. The father and mother of the home must desire it -to have a peaceful home. No goal can be reached without unity. “Can two walk together except they be agreed?” When both are determined to see their marriage through, they are less susceptible to escalated conflicts. Conflict and disagreements in marriage is sometimes inescapable, the deal is that no matter the issue none...

I came across this very rich article written by my friend MR. BEN ND.UMEH: SEX SELECTION – MYTH OR REALITY? Africans rate male children very highly. Male discharges contain 2 types of sperm cells – namely: Gymnosperm X – Female bearing – oval shaped, larger in size, slow in mobility, fewer in number.  Androsperm Y – Male bearing – smaller in size, faster in mobility, longer tails, stronger and twice in number. Females have only XX cells. Males have XY cells. If cell X meets the ovum first and they unite, an XX union is formed and a female child is produced. Male follows as appropriate. The vaginal environment is normally acidic and not favourable to Androsperms Y. The cervical and uterine environments are alkaline and are favourable to Gymnosperm X.  (a)  For Male Child: 1. Intercourse should be close to ovulation period. The cervical mucus is more alkaline then and so, encourages the Androsperm. 2. An alkaline douche of the vagina sho...

1. It's natural: If you as a man are the stronger vessel, it is natural that you should shoulder more responsibility so that the weaker vessel won't crumble under the weight. It's almost like you were built for it. 2. It's a bonding opportunity: When you undertake domestic chores at home, your children see it and are motivated to help out thus ensuring some amazing family bonding time. 3.  It's romantic: There isn't a woman alive who will not get under immense romantic pressure when her man takes or shoulders her stress away. Gratitude is a nice feeling that often builds up to a nice night! 4.  It truly helps the woman: When she gets the much needed time to rest, she can finally look as beautiful as you met her. You truly can't expect her to look trim and sexy when she's always stressed out as a result of too much chores. 5.  It's unifying: Sharing in simple tasks like bathing the children, doing the d...