NEVER SPILT YOUR FAMILY - NOT FOR ANYTHING!

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... Imagine keeping your wife in Dubai to oversee company affairs there while you remain in the US.

You’ve just split up your own family with your hand. 
No matter how big your vision gets.

NEVER SPLIT YOUR FAMILY.

Marriage is about unity. If she cannot be where you are, then there is no reason why she would or should remain married to you. ...

The couple is ONE. Not TWO. There is NO VISION without the man (plural - couple) that will write it down, make in plain and run with it.

Without vision there is no path. The Man is directionless - without work. But a man that is not complete - not united in marriage to his missing rib, cannot be successful in executing his vision (following his path). Cos' you see, his path has two many dangers that he can not handle alone, thus his need to be complete.

A lot of men have had this your idea and they ended up loosing everything. Their love, their wife, their children and eventually their business or whatever they call their vision. Adam had a vision and God said "It is not good for Adam to be alone". It is very funny that Adams' of our generation think they know more than God. So they send off the woman God gave them to combat loneliness to another location and they remain lonely thus give chance to temptation not only to themselves but also to their wife. 

Note that if your wife wanted a life of vision, she really DID NOT NEED TO MARRY YOU FOR THAT. Marriage is about companionship and UNION in every sense of the word. Physically, emotionally, sensually, spiritually, and visionarily. Split that Bond in any way then you have destroyed your marriage. It is as simple as that. Besides, you can enlarge your territory without splitting your home. Hire somebody!!!!

- E. I. OPUTA

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